My first memory of my mother returns me to my early childhood. When I was still a toddler, I was frequently hospitalized with childhood asthma. The hospital staff called me "The Boy in the Bubble" as my crib was curtained with sheets of plastic. Alone and frightened, I cried until I heard my mother singing and felt her hand gently holding mine. At my bedside, she taught me to calm myself singing, "I love you, a bushel and a peck ..."
Through the years, I heard my mother sing. She sang to her children, and then to her grandchildren, and then to her great-grandchildren. She sang to co-workers in the company choir. She sang to her patients when she was a Nurse's Aid. She sang at her children's weddings. My mother and I sang for decades in our church choirs. While in rehab, she sang to the staff as I wheeled her through the long hallways where they would stop to listen and smile.
My mother prayed for her children so hard that she would often ask me to repair her rosary beads. When a "Hail Mary" bead went missing, she said, "That's okay, Billy, you say this one for me." And I do.
In our last days together, I found myself sitting by my mother's bedside. When she was confused, I gently held her hand to calm her as the sun went down. I helped her sing, "I love you, a bushel and a peck ..."
Mom, until we are singing together again,
I love You.