Danita,
We have shared so many joyful memories together as a church family and as friends, but my last several weeks in Gainesville (for this season) with you was especially vivid. I remember you were like a curious child wondering how I was doing. You asked multiple times if I needed help. I replied that I would probably need help the last few days of moving out but you insisted if I was sure there was nothing you could help right now. You came to my apartment to check on me and asked me to call you, saying that a friend should call anytime. It would have been unimaginable without the help of you and Michael to finish such a large project.
We went to Longhorn to eat steak one Tuesday evening when Michael went to the poker group. I remember you talked about your mom's last days and the graciousness of Jesus. And I knew you missed your mom. Honestly, my first thought was you are with mom now before I realized Jesus was there too. And David. And Moses. And Abraham. All the saints. Quite a group. I hope you've made some new friends while reuniting with the old ones. Indeed you must be quite busy now.
I finally made it to China. I had quite a time in Ireland. As you have warned me driving was not easy, I got myself into trouble--a flat tyre in the middle of nowhere and called for roadside assistance for the first time in life. I couldn't help but sharing a video of Irish people going wild singing "country road take me home" with you. I believe that would put a smile on your face. I miss the time sharing life with you together.
My last 24 hours in Gainesville was quite a rich experience. I probably would not have planned such a full schedule myself—you laughed and told me I got crazy friends—and I will always cherish those memories. Like the lyrics in a eulogy I recently put on repeat, “flower so bright, frozen in time.” My last memory of you was you waving goodbye to me with a smiling face. We knew we would part for a while, but I knew we would stay in touch, as when I was away from Gainesville before. But you were on such a journey.
The future of the MC had been always on your heart and you shared if we were to pray for you, that would be your prayer request. We will continue to pray.
I still feel like I could talk to you anytime, only that you have forgot you phone. We will miss you always, until one day we catch up again.
Sending love.